Resources

10 Perfect Mother’s Day Gifts for Mamas on Bedrest!

May 11th, 2017

This weekend is Mother’s Day and it’s time to shower your favorite Mamas on Bedrest with love and adoration!! Mamas on Bedrest are mamas who are not out and about. They are doing the very important work of gestating their babies at home and in the hospital, doing all that they can to make sure their bundles of love arrive safe and healthy. In their unwavering dedication to their babies and their families, recognizing that finances may be tight and that dad’s and other family members time is stretched, they are forgoing some vital self care. So for all that they are doing, show them that you see them and that you appreciate all the hard work that they are doing, and give them some extra love and pampering just for them! Below are 10 Perfect Mother’s Day gifts for Mamas on Bedrest. You’ll need to check your local listings for availability and pricing.

A Facial – Today there are mobile aestheticians who will actually come to your home and pamper you! Why not book a facial for your fav Mama on Bedrest? The aesthetician typically will bring her own equipment and products and provide mama with an unforgettable experience. Facials are excellent during pregnancy because with the added pregnancy hormones on board, many mamas may be experiencing acne, dryness or other skin imbalances that an experienced aesthetician can help remedy. And it will make mama feel great and bring out that pregnancy glow!

A Massage – Massage is an excellent gift for any mama, but especially for Mamas on Bedrest. Massage stimulates circulation as well as lymphatic drainage. Because Mamas on Bedrest are not up and moving about, their circulation has often slowed and the removal of dead tissue and wastes are also slowed. A massage by an experienced prenatal massage therapist will not only help mama’s circulation, but will relieve tired muscles and stretch muscles and limbs not being used while mama is on bedrest. Mama may also find that her sleep improves after the massage.

Manicure/Pedicure – All Mamas, especially Mamas on Bedrest, like to look pretty! Why not gift mama a mani/pedi! Aestheticians can come to mama in her home or to her hospital room and provide the service.

Housecleaning – Let’s face it, when mama’s down, the family goes into chaos as they try to figure out how to maneuver without their star player/team captain! Mamas often lament to me that they are concerned that their family is having trouble keeping up with the house; with their partners working and the kids doing what they can. Why not gift this mama some peace of mind and provide a deep cleaning service? Most services will come and do a one time deep cleaning, getting in every nook and cranny and setting things to right. Once that is done, Mama will rest easy knowing that her family now only needs to do maintenance upkeep.

Meal Delivery – I know that many communities gather round families with Mamas on Bedrest and bring over meals and casseroles. This is a wonderful gesture and much appreciated by Mama and her family. But it’s Mother’s Day. Let’s go all out!!! Order mama and her family a meal from their favorite restaurant and have it delivered and set up in her room! This is a wonderful way for mama and her entire family to share the day and its extra special when the meal comes from a special place.

Personal Chef Services – Some mamas will develop pregnancy induced hypertention (PIH) or Gestational Diabetes Mellitus (GDM) during pregnancy or even other metabolic disorders that will require mama to watch her diet. Why not give mama some special attention by hiring a personal chef for her-even if just for Mother’s Day. Most personal chef’s are very adept at preparing foods that are nutritious yet adhere to special dietary constraints. It will surely make mama feel like a queen!

Childbirth Education – Unfortunately, because mama is on bedrest, she won’t be able to attend a childbirth class. Why not bring the class to her! There are innumerable childbirth education classes available online. And (shameless plug here) Mamas on Bedrest & Beyond offers childbirth education classes via SKYPE and Facetime! So there is no need for mama to go into labor unprepared, but every opportunity for her to enter labor and delivery empowered.

Lactation Consultation – Many of you may be saying, “She hasn’t even had the baby yet!” Then this is the perfect time to make sure that Mama has everything that she needs to successfully initiate breastfeeding at birth and to carry on throughout the first year (if she so chooses!!) I have had many mamas remark that consultations with lactation consultants are an expense that they cannot afford. Why not gift this valuable resource to her??

Doula Services – I am so saddened when I hear Mamas on Bedrest say, “Oh, I can’t have a doula, I’m high risk and will be delivering in the hospital” or “I’m having a c-section.” There is still no reason that you can’t have support and comfort measures during your labor, delivery and birth. Doulas are for ALL women, not just those who are having uncomplicated pregnancies or birthing with midwives. Think about it, if doulas are there to make you feel more comfortable and secure, and to make sure that you have your wishes carried out as much as possible, doesn’t it make more sense to have a doula present to advocate on your behalf in an environment where there may be more intervention? Doulas are able to support all childbearing women in all types of situations, and their presence is now scientifically documented to improve birth outcomes. Gift this invaluable resource to a mama today!

Becoming a mother is quite possibly one of the most monumental events in a woman’s life. It needn’t be marred by bedrest. Mama can still be pampered and appreciated for the awesome mama she is and it’s my hope that these 10 gift ideas will enable you to show her how much she is loved and appreciated.

 

Happy Mother’s Day mamas!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Get mama Doula services, Childbirth Education and Breastfeeding support, by e-mailing info@mamasonbedrest.com

Mamas on Bedrest: DOULAS SHOUL BE PRESENT AT ALL BIRTHS GLOBALLY!

April 6th, 2017

When people ask me what I think about doulas, I simply say,

“Doulas are an invaluable part of the birthing team and I wish I had had not one but two doulas when I was having my children, especially my daughter! We needed one doula for me and one for my husband!”

Doulas are birth attendants, typically women, who stay with a woman providing support, encouragement and non-medical pain relief and comfort measures to childbearing women during labor, delivery and in the early post partum. The World Health Organization has added their endorsement of birth attendants (doulas) by recommending that, “Birth Attendants be present at ALL BIRTHS GLOBALLY,” as part of the WHO Safe Childbirth Checklist Implementation Guide. This is huge, not only for those of us who are doulas and know the invaluable role we play in supporting mothers during pregnancy, labor and delivery and in the immediate post partum period, but also for mothers who may not know about doulas, or who may have been on the fence about getting a doula.

Research on the efficacy of doulas shows that when childbearing women have doulas attend their births they have:

  • Decreased overall cesarean rate (down 50%) and they are less likely to have a cesarean section delivery or other invasive interventions.
  • Shorter labors (decreased 25%)
  • Decreased use of oxytocin by (decreased 40%) a medication used to start or hasten labor.
  • Decreased requests for an epidural or other pain medications by 60%.

Doulas attend to mothers and/or couples primarily during childbirth and in the early post partum period. However, there are ante partum doulas (Mamas on Bedrest & Beyond for example) who attend to mothers who are experiencing complications prenatally and who need additional support. Prenatally doulas offer non-medical supportive care such as helping mothers on bed rest become more comfortable, attending to home duties, offering resources and tips for comfort and support, emotional support, family support, childbirth education, and lactation support and education.

Many people are under the mistaken impression that doulas are only for women having “natural” (vaginal) or home births. Doulas attend all types of births, in all types of settings; home births, hospital births or birthing centers. Additionally, doulas are as beneficial to women having cesarean sections as they are to women having vaginal births. Doulas are particularly under utilized by high risk pregnant women and yet this group stands to benefit the most from the support and emotional care.

Mamas on Bedrest, you can and should consider having a doula present at the delivery of your child-even if the father is present. This well trained, impartial birth professional can act as your advocate and as a bridge to the health care system and to providers when you are unable to advocate for yourself. They can help explain procedures, assist in getting you information on certain proposed procedures and treatments and can help be sure that you are giving informed consent when you sign forms. Doulas are present first and foremost for the mother and the needs of everyone else in the family or on the healthcare team are secondary. Doulas DO NOT MAKE MEDICAL DECISIONS for their clients, but rather hold a space so that a woman and her partner (if present) can determine the best course of treatment for them based on all the available information.

The doula model has been present historically as far back as Biblical times (Exodus 1:15-21) when women of a family or tribe attended to a birthing woman and made sure that her children and husband were fed and cared for. Doulas and Midwives nearly became extinct during the middle and latter part of the 20th century with the advent of hospital labor wards and the specialty of obstetrics. There has been a resurgence in doula use during the latter part of the 20th century and now in to the 21st century. Unfortunately, the use of Doulas has been limited to women of means as they have been the only ones able to pay for a doula as insurance companies have yet to agree to reimbursement.

But there is good news. There are many doula services that offer a sliding scale or are being reimbursed by Medicaid such that ALL women can receive this potentially lifesaving care. In Austin there are the following groups offering low or no cost doula services.

Austin

Giving Austin Labor Support (GALS)– A non-profit organization that supports women with limited or no resources for doula care so that “No woman gives birth alone.”

Mama Sana/Vibrant woman-a grassroots organization of low income women of color serving women in the community with prenatal, birth and post partum reproductive health support.

Outside of Austin, there are several programs around the country serving women from all income backgrounds:

Ancient Song Doula Services– A non-profit organization in Brooklyn New York serving low income women of color.

The Pettaway Pursuit Foundation-Located in Pennsylvania, this non-profit organization specifically attends to high risk pregnant women on prescribed bed rest. A team of contracted doulas provide care and the organization has contracts with several managed care organizations for reimbursement.

Mamatoto Village– This organization also provides very high quality birth assistance and also has its own training program for its staff.

Uzazi Village – This non-profit organization provides doula services to low income women of color in the Greater Kansas City Missouri area, and has another location in St. Louis Missouri. They also provide doula training, childbirth education, reproductive health education and lactation services. They are also now beginning to train midwives.

These are just a few of the organizations that I know of providing doula services. There are others and I am sure many more that I don’t know about. The point I wish to make is that if you would like a doula to attend your birth with you, there is likely a doula organization or solo doula that can help. Mamas, don’t forgo this vital source of support. Doulas really do make births better!

Looking for a doula? e-mail info@mamasonbedrest.com and we’ll do our best to help match you with a doula.

Know of a doula that is excellent at what she does and serves women in need? Share her information here and we’ll start a running list of doulas that are serving low income.

Know of a doula organization that offers services at low or no cost? Let us know so we can share this information.

Did you have a doula at your birth? Please share your experience in the comments section below.

Mamasonbedrest: Healthy Happy Pregnancy Cookbook

February 14th, 2017

In this video blog, Darline Turner shares the Healthy Happy Pregnancy Cookbook. Written by Registered Dieticians Stephanie Clarke and Willow Jarosh, the book contains 125 recipes that are not only tasty, but also address many of the common ailments of pregnancy. Today, Darline tries the Blueberry Banana Oat smoothie, designed to give pregnant mamas, most especially mamas on bedrest relief from leg cramps.